Gay Life – The Paulinator: A Celebrity, A Porn Star or A Firefighter?
When I first started exploring my sexuality I thought at some point (before I settle into a long lasting relationship), I would love a roll in the hay with: a hot celebrity, a well endowed porn star and of course a beefy New York City fireman. Well, recently I had the opportunity to cross one of these three off my list.
Last weekend while sitting at home blogging and watching TV – doing totally mindless things – I noticed I had a response to my online profile. I checked out the guy who had messaged me and almost went straight for the delete button as he was a bit out of my usual age range and I’m not so much into daddy-types. Before I deleted his message, I noticed his occupation was listed as “Firefighter.” This obviously gave me the needed motivation to glace at his pictures once more and think, “hmmm, well, maybe.” He’s a bit older than I usual go for, but he’s Latino, well built and is not totally repulsive to look at. I figured I should at the very least say hello.
We messaged back and forth a few times and then it came: he asked me to come over to get naked! Sometimes (as most people maybe figuring out these days) I have a hard time saying “no” to people, especially guys. In the end I just don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings.
I hopped on the train leaving Queens heading to his apartment in Hell’s Kitchen (transferring twice, thank you MTA weekend service changes!) shortly after 7pm. I got to his place and upon him opening the door I knew this was a bad idea – especially because he totally had a little bit more resemblance to my father than I would have liked. Needless to say, he did not look much like his picture. He was built though, which was nice. Too bad his grey chest hair was covering up most of it.
I figured since I made the trek already, I might as well see what he had to offer in the sack… Definitely not the worst, but eh… I’ve had better. I guess I will have to go back and revisit the NYC fireman before officially crossing it off my list!
Tags:Dating, FDNY, Firefighter, paulinator
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